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I am African-American,
Native-American,
European White,
in addition to being
a Disabled Veteran

Civillywedd.com was created in loving
memory of
John Andrew Baker
from Halifax, Massachusetts, 1936
-1992,
My friend, Life-Mate, Harvard-Grad  
and Teacher extrordinaire who
inspired me to carry on...



We were joined together in a
ceremony in John's home in
Silverlake, Los Angeles, California on
December 31, 1982
I recall John saying,
" It's a shame that this wedding is
not legal",

I said, "I guess I'll have to do
something about that someday"
.


My plan is to  generate new
development ideas for the LGBT
Community that focuses on
open-family projects, by providing
easy to understand wedding
planning and newlywed essentials.

I took it upon myself to contact the
C.E.O.'s of the then "Top Ten Fortune
500 Companies"
in year 2000
requesting their participation in
Civillywedd.com, as well as,
promoting the website.

I am doing my part as promised my
former partner, John would be
pleased to know that Gay Marriage is
now legal in
Massachusetts, his birth
State, as well as
California (On
Hold), where we resided, in addition
to,
Connecticut, Vermont and
Maine(Voted down) , in addition to
Iowa,
recognition in Washington, D.C., and
now in New York
, my birth State.

LGBT Marriage is on the horizon, the
future is looking brighter for Lgbt's
worldwide.  

Join in the progress and make Equal
Marriage Rights the perfect synergy
of humankind for the greater good.


Remembering all who lived and loved
11 September
11 March

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On an interesting side note, Nathan
Sayre was one of few people of his
time who challenged the racial color
code. Although he never married, he
had several children with one of his
slave women and later lived with
Susan Hunt, who was herself a
mixture of Cherokee, African, and
white. They raised their three children
here at Pomegranate Hall. In his
library, Sayre kept books that argued
AGAINST the common belief that racial
"amalgamation" would inevitably
produce degenerate and physically
inferior children. It is believed that the
complicated layout of the house was
to support the equally complicated
family dynamics.

Judge Sayre and Pomegranate Hall
were the subject of numerous books
including "Ambiguous Lives: Free
Women of Color in Rural Georgia" by
Adele Logan Alexander . You see,
Judge Sayre defied tradition at the
time, and raised 3 children with his
common law wife, Susan Hunt,who
was bi-racial, in a time when slavery
was in full force. At the time, he could
not legally marry Ms. Hunt and
consequently they had to live their
lives behind closed doors.